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Terrell posted an update: Happy Memorial Day

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 20:55:05 +0000

Happy Memorial Day

Terrell posted an update: You want this - early in the morning.

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 20:26:16 +0000

You want this – early in the morning.

Terrell posted an update: Love to Market!

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 20:23:57 +0000

Love to Market!

anthole social created the group 🐜 Herbie’s House

Mon, 19 May 2025 07:33:42 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group Books & Bold Conversations from "Good for thoughtful convos and common interests." to "Got a favorite read? A question that sparks deep thought? This is your space to explore culture, creativity, and community."

Mon, 19 May 2025 00:28:11 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group Cooking & Cultural Recipes from "Food is love. Share what’s on your plate, swap recipes, or teach us how Grandma made it. " to "Food is love. Share what’s on your plate, swap recipes, or teach us how Grandma made it."

Mon, 19 May 2025 00:26:43 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group Cooking & Cultural Recipes from "Sharing recipes, traditions, food photos, and hosting tips." to "Food is love. Share what’s on your plate, swap recipes, or teach us how Grandma made it. "

Mon, 19 May 2025 00:26:38 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group Music & Vibes from "From Southern Soul to House and everything in between—drop your playlists, lyrics, favorite artists, and soundtracks to your story. " to "From Southern Soul to House and everything in between—drop your playlists, lyrics, favorite artists, and soundtracks to your story."

Mon, 19 May 2025 00:18:59 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group Music & Vibes from "Talk about Southern Soul, jazz, R&B, house, etc." to "From Southern Soul to House and everything in between—drop your playlists, lyrics, favorite artists, and soundtracks to your story. "

Mon, 19 May 2025 00:18:53 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group The Brotherhood Lounge from "This is the heart of The Anthole. Introduce yourself, start a conversation, and connect with other mature gay and bi men of color—and the people who love them. It’s chill, it’s warm, it’s home. " to "This is the heart of The Anthole. Introduce yourself, start a conversation, and connect with other mature gay and bi men of color—and the people who love them. It’s chill, it’s warm, it’s home."

Sun, 18 May 2025 23:54:58 +0000

anthole social changed the description of the group The Brotherhood Lounge from "This is the heart of The AntHole. Introduce yourself, start a conversation, and connect with other mature gay and bi men of color—and the people who love them. It’s chill, it’s warm, it’s home." to "This is the heart of The Anthole. Introduce yourself, start a conversation, and connect with other mature gay and bi men of color—and the people who love them. It’s chill, it’s warm, it’s home. "

Sun, 18 May 2025 23:54:23 +0000

anthole social created the group Cooking & Cultural Recipes

Sat, 17 May 2025 05:23:34 +0000

anthole social created the group Books & Bold Conversations

Fri, 16 May 2025 21:54:56 +0000

anthole social created the group Music & Vibes

Fri, 16 May 2025 08:13:25 +0000

anthole social created the group Health & Fitness Over 40

Fri, 16 May 2025 05:49:54 +0000

anthole social created the group The Chat Tunnel (Off-Topic Vibes)

Wed, 14 May 2025 06:47:42 +0000

Terrell posted an update: 😍I love the Love of a Good Man.

Thu, 08 May 2025 04:29:09 +0000

😍I love the Love of a Good Man.

Terrell started the discussion When did you first experience this Joy? in the forum The Brotherhood Lounge

Tue, 06 May 2025 04:56:52 +0000

When did you first experience this Joy?

Did this Elation take time or did you always feel this strong about community?

Terrell replied to the discussion What does BROTHERHOOD mean to you, and when have you felt it most in your life? in the forum The Brotherhood Lounge

Tue, 06 May 2025 04:51:54 +0000

Reply to What does BROTHERHOOD mean to you, and when have you felt it most in your life?

For me, brotherhood means being seen without needing to explain myself. It’s that unspoken energy when you walk into a room, lock eyes with someone, and you both just know—“Yeah, I see you. I got you.”

I felt it strongest during a tough time in my early 40s—fresh out of a breakup, feeling invisible in the dating world. A group of older gay…

anthole social started the discussion What does BROTHERHOOD mean to you, and when have you felt it most in your life? in the forum The Brotherhood Lounge

Tue, 06 May 2025 04:49:57 +0000

What does BROTHERHOOD mean to you, and when have you felt it most in your life?

Herbie the Ant says:

Ayo fam 🐜 — welcome to The Brotherhood Lounge! I’m Herbie, your feeler-flexin’ host with the most, and I just wanna say… this space right here? It’s sacred.

It’s where we show up as we are. Where we talk life, love, loss, healing, and all that good grown-man truth.

So don’t be shy—drop your voice in this thread. What does…

Terrell joined the group The Brotherhood Lounge

Sat, 03 May 2025 08:36:10 +0000

anthole social created the group The Brotherhood Lounge

Sat, 03 May 2025 08:34:20 +0000

Terrell posted an update: I am happy to be here. I feel Welcome

Fri, 02 May 2025 05:21:43 +0000

I am happy to be here. I feel Welcome

Riverrat posted an update: Happy to Be here - I hope this site will change lives.

Fri, 02 May 2025 03:30:28 +0000

Happy to Be here – I hope this site will change lives.

Riverrat became a registered member

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 06:09:52 +0000

anthole social posted an update: Herbie Here—Welcome to The Anthole! 🐜💛“Ayo, ayo!Herbie […]

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 04:36:14 +0000

Herbie Here—Welcome to The Anthole! 🐜💛

“Ayo, ayo!

Herbie here! That’s right—I’m the ant with the plan, your muscle-bound mascot, and your personal guide through these tunnels of connection. 💪🏽🐜

Welcome to The Anthole: Community for Gay & Bisexual Men of Color—and all the men who love and support us. This ain’t just a dating site. Nope. This is a…